In this age of consumerism, it is hard to tell if today’s young people really appreciate all that they have. How can you raise your kids to be more grateful? The most effective way to teach gratitude is to adopt three important “R” words in your day-to-day lives together.

• Reflect
  Set aside special time to take inventory of what you really value in life. Reflect on what others have done for you over the past year, as well as what you have done to help those in need.

• Review
  Review your family’s philosophy on sharing versus spending. As a counter-rhythm to advertising messages, make a decision as a family to channel some time and money into a cause you all care about. As you think beyond yourselves this holiday season, the lasting value for your family will be substantial.

• Routine
  Routine sends the message that gratitude is important. Consider writing thank-you notes to people who have given you gifts of time and attention. For young kids, drawing a picture might be more appropriate. And if this exercise is a good experience for your family, consider making it an annual tradition.

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